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Overthinking

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Overthinking (part-3)




In previous articles we discussed that how to come out from our problems? Today we will discuss about last 2 main reason of overthinking and this is last article on this topic.

 Let's start our 1st reason of overthinking is our imaginary problem,as we have discussed it in previous part ,but yeah you can say outcome that may be positive or negative and 2nd problem is other's opinion in our life. Let's take an example suppose that you want to try to do something bigger in your life and only 1 thought arise in your mind  i.e., what if I fail. If I end this in one line it would be "this is called life", but  we will discuss it in deeper for better understanding. If you think that you would fail in something which you want to do and that would be your end then may be  you don't know the real meaning of life and you haven't learnt anything from your life.


 If you will fail in something then people will come and will make jokes of you and t…

Overthinking

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Overthinking (part-2)





In previous part,we discussed that stay away form negative people and also ignoring to implement other people's opinion toward your life, this is most of the reason of overthinking. We think only about the person's opening which could be useless and it may become overthinking.

 Today we discuss that why and how people can get rid of their own problems? If we look in deeper, we will find that most of the problem arise because of our own thought. Have you ever notice that we have to think about something else and something else going in our mind. where we don't have to go. So, is it right to think like this?

It's good if you are thinking about something it increases creativity and eagerness. For example:- A child is sitting in class and class is going on and the topic is of astronomical science teacher is teaching about the space. Now, as we know our mind generate pictures of word. So as he listened about space and the other thing then he starts thi…

Overthinking.

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Part-1



As you all know, the topic is overthinking and it is biggest problem of the world. Now, we have to find the solution of this problem. First of all we correct the defination of overthinking, Did you address negative thinking as overthinking? No, negative thinking is not overthinking, thinking about something  in negative way and creating an imaginary problems is called overthinking and if you overthink about anything then  you can go in   depression.

Now, what is thinking and thought let's take an example.



Think about a Rose. The image of rose in your mind is called thought and later if you imagine it's root and also fragrance and how the rose will grow called thinking. Now we have to know about negative thinking, thinking about someone's opinion like why he/she say these words to me? There is no answer why he/she say those words to you. Suppose a mentally retired man shouts on you,so willy think about him for 10-15 days that why he shouted on you? Obviously no as it…

Quotes.

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Quotes for life:-


1. " You can easily hurt anyone ego,By loosing the faith."

2. "You already have won half of challenges,If you have trust on yourself."

3." Beware from the fake friends because many enemies become friend and have a cheating tendency to defeat you. But, be ready with secret weapon (Believe)."

4. "Your dream is like a toy. Until, you are interested to take care of this toy and make it beutiful. You would be happy. But,where you give it to scrabpicker,your toy would be ruined. So, always be interested in your toy."

5. "Until,you give me respect and treat me like a gentleman,you will stay on my head. But,when you start disrespecting me ,then don't forget that I am your dad."

6. "My great motivation (Parents) are at home, Therefore I don't want motivation from others."

7. "If you are unsatisfied and frustrated with your life ,then see a poor child's smile,it will surely boost you up."

8. &qu…

Habit of Action

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Keep talking limited and action unlimited
When you just thinking of something,someone else is actually doing. When you think that what others think, that time  someone else actually enjoy the outcome. Think but not about the people,but about the doing work as much effective you can do and don't take more  time to think.

100% people want success, 80% just dreaming,and 20% work under the people who fulfill their dreams and help them to achieve their dream/goal. Why people fail to achieve their dreams, goals /aim or whatever they want?
 Because they just imagine their outcomes and enjoy. Some of them are imagine their outcome and create imaginary problems. Our own thoughts are the 90% reason of our problems and the people who take actions instead of wasting time on imaginary problems are the fast achiever of success.

Actions are best option untill you belive in yourself otherwise actions are aslo useless. So,get action habit. Now,how to get action habit is the  main point. Simply j…

How to think and dream creatively.

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Part 2



 Welcome to 2nd part. 
Lets start, how much time people thinks? They face problem and starts complaining about that instead of thinking about solution. 2nd name of life is problem.

There are some points for thinking:-
1. Many people have problems. in reallity many people are curious because they have problem which allow to think and a sign of life,but those who doesn't have problem they are not living. People should know how to handle worst conditions,so happy to have problem and focus on solution.

2.  Remove negativity and negative people from your life/surrounding. They will always discourage and tell you that you can't do anything and some people pull you down. So, stay away from them if they are your relatives then stay from them in mental state if you can't stay physically then.

3. Always learn new things on daily  basis. That will help you to grow thinking power, increase self confidence,and you can read our blog How To Increase Self-Confidence.

4. if your dream i…

How to think and dream creatively

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Part-1


This is best topic suggest by our viewer. We are glad to have that type of people who want to change themselves and want success in their lives. So, let's start the topic.

Everybody starts with a dream like Ram wants to do a business on large scale, so what will he does? He will follow his senior  and experienced people in his field and arrange some meetings with business man(note that point) and on the other side, Lakhan also wants' to do business but he just dreaming about that.

Where Ram was doing business he arranges meetings etc, but Lakhan is just dreaming just try to experience that life which he wants, so he just goes to a man who does 9-5 job and he doesn't have side income. What is difference between both of them, some people knows that what they are doing and how to do that.

The biggest difference is that first one who is actually wants to do is they sit and taking advice from that person who actually success in business or their field and the second  is …

Patience is virtue

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Patience is biggest and best key to achieve anything whatever you want in your life.
Let's start, most of the people wants to be successful fast they don't have patience, where as actually successful people have patience because they know that success never come overnight. The who has patience, has the power to change and win the game. Patience is best teacher in failure if you don't have patience then also you don't have discipline and the one who hasn't discipline, never deserve success.

Second thing is that you don't have to sacrifice. Don't stay in comfort zone. When we are out of our comfort zone then we have discipline, hardwork, obsession and have patience too. Without patience nothing can be achieve, without patience we are in state of mind where we can get mad/anger easily.

So, be clam have some patience and wait for right time. Something is coming to you and remember that small change can make large differences. You don't have to commit extra …

Short motivational story of Demosthene.

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Today, this topic is all about Demosthenes the great orator in the world. How he trouble in his life and got the Oracy skill.

He was born in Ethens the capital of Greece in 384 B.C,, When he born then his mother  died and when he was of 7 year then his father died.

After his parents death whoever left in his family they snatch everything from him his money,workers and even his education too. At that time he was unable to do anything  because he was child and stuttered as well. Everyone made fun of him  and laugh on his speech,but he took pledge that he will comeout against this plot.Then he had been underground he became bald and he practice day and night by putting marbles in his mouth ,against the wave of oceans for achieving his goal and for getting his right.

He carried this for several months. When he cured his speech then he went court and challanged his gardients.Then he won and he got everything.


everyone became fan of demosthene. Big deals came near him. He became popular . …